The marriage relationship can be beautiful, fun and fulfilling. But it can also be difficult and challenging at times. Because two imperfect people come together to form a union, the interactions between them aren’t always stellar. At times communication break downs occur which lead to disagreements.

Because all couples experience disagreements and arguments, some more “spirited” than others, it is important to have an understanding on which lines should never be crossed. For instance, name calling and cheap shots should never be a way to gain a perceived advantage during an argument.

It is very important to remember to always to set these boundaries and to always choose love. In this manner your commitment to “won” will never fail.

What are ways you prevent escalation and maintain “woness”?